Wednesday, April 14, 2010

stupid girls.

okay, so i've decided that if you're gonna air the laundry, you might as well air it until it's completely dry.... so it doesn't get moldy.... or something like that.
you get the point, right?

there really isn't anything to hide about me.... i've made some EXTREMELY poor choices in my past.... mostly i talk about my poor choice when i stayed in far too many unhealthy relationships far longer than i ever should have (really, i shouldn't have been in them to begin with)....

with that being said, i welcome you to read my journey, from one failed relationship to another.... at "Stupid Girls" (stewpidgirls.blogspot.com)....

all of these super poor choices must have been all a part of a much bigger plan that i was completely unaware of at the time.... and that was finding, my now husband, Jason.

he is the absolute light of my life, my partner, and by far, my very best friend in the world. i'm not entirely sure i'd be able to appreciate him as much as my heart does now, but because of all of the mistakes i've ever made in my life, i know, without a doubt, that he is the best person in the world for me. these poor choices i've made, have brought me to this place now. this wonderful place with him....

and now, it's left me with nothing to do but share my poor choices with you.... no one is ever EVER alone.... no matter how ALONE you feel.... we've all made shitty choices.... now you can dwell on your crappy decisions, or learn from them on move on from them. let them go.... your future is TRULY in your own hands....

8 comments:

Shell said...

I can totally relate. Oh, the stupid choices I have made! But, I know that they all led me to my husband. :)

Jenni Newman said...

Ash, I'm so glad you did this. It seems as though we went through the exact same thing at the exact same time with different guys of course. But look at us now! We're so happy with our fabulous husbands and family. We made it though the crazy times and got past all of those "stupid girl" situations. So thank you for airing your dirty laundry, it's inspiring and I admire your strength. =) Love you!

sarahjayne smythe said...

Great post. It's so nice to know you can look back at your decisions for what they were and how they shaped and led you to the very happy place you are now. :)

Ms. Christina said...

Wow! So true... In life, we can't regret what we've done, but we can always learn from it! & you're not the only stupid girl out there... I can be a stupid girl at times too! ;)

Ms. Anthropy said...

Sure does make us appreciate the "keepers".

Ashley King said...

=) thank you all. those of you who know me in "real life" and those of you who just know me on here... it's nice to have the support for such a big decision. i just hope that it helps ONE person to move forward with their lives.... you've never made "too many" crappy decisions to finally pull yourself together.... i've made FAR more mistakes than i'll ever be able to write about, but i'll do my best.... hope you guys stay along for the journey. =)

Ally said...

I love that you had a happy ever after ending. very sweet!

you know what i really would like to know, are there any stupid guys? like how many guys would put up with the crap girls put up with?

Ashley King said...

ally, unfortunately there are stupid guys too.... lots of them.... one used to be a very good friend of mine. girls walked all over him alllll the time. he was used constantly.... not for sex of course, but more for money and a good time... they would cheat on him constantly and he was so oblivious to it all.... there are definitely stupid guys out there, but most are so macho, and wouldn't come out and talk about it... and if they did, we might assume they were a little too feminine for our liking.... or maybe that's just me... i don't like a big baby.... i like a sentimental guy, but he's got to be tougher than me... (which isn't really difficult to do... I'm the biggest baby ever! haha)